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December 13, 2025
Happy Saturday friends! I hope that you are having a wonderful start to your weekend! Today I am so excited to share with y'all an adorable new Christmas Junk Journal addition to the shop!
This adorable Christmas in the Country Junk Journal is now available for purchase! (You can find it HERE!)
This beautiful vintage Golden Book "Christmas in the Country” Junk Journal is a Christmas Lovers dream. With more than 100 pages/tags that include quality and beautiful scrapbook paper, adorable vintage and modern embellishments and ephemera and tags, cards, ribbon (both vintage and unique modern) and pretty surprises for the owner to receive, this Junk Journal will create a treasured keepsake for a lifetime and can be used throughout the holiday season and years to come.
These beautiful and bespoke journals are the perfect way to grab onto ordinary moments or days and remember special times in life, especially during this holiday season!
I absolutely love all the tiny details like the bow above - the soft and "chunky" yarn just matches so perfectly with the theme of being out in the country!
And this specific junk journal, truly became one of my favorites as it came together.
This Junk Journal includes EVERY page of this precious vintage book!!
This beautiful vintage Golden Book "Christmas in the Country” is securely spiral bound and allows for you to lay it flat for all of your scrapbooking and writing desires!
With the ease of it laying flat- you can easily add in pictures and quick notes so that you can remember these special holiday days forever.
This adorable and classic Junk Journal would create a treasured keepsake for a lifetime and can be used throughout the holiday season (for special holiday parties or a special occasion) or as a December Daily album if you are joining in the fun of that!
Oh and did I mention the size?!? At approximately 6.6x8 (classic vintage Golden Book size) it is the perfect fun large size junk journal! No matter how you would use this junk journal it would be precious. *smiles*. To purchase this one of a kind and bespoke Vintage Christmas in the Country Junk Journal click HERE.
Thank you again for your support of the shop! It is truly a blessing to my mom and I who run it! You can find the entire Christmas collection of junk journals HERE and so many others in the shop HERE! Happy Saturday friends! I hope that you have a wonderful day!
Happy Friday friends! I hope that you have had a wonderful week! Thank you again for making this such a lovely community and space that I come to each day! I am so grateful for the Caravan Sonnet community!
Here are some of my favorite things from this past week! First of all....
I receive so many emails each week from y'all looking to encourage and support friends with chronic illnesses and I hope that this post, 17 Ways to Help a Friend with a Chronic Illness During the Holidays will be helpful! I am so grateful for your heart for those walking that journey! You can find it HERE!
We are adding the final pieces to our Christmas Journals and Junk Journals collection and I wanted to say thank you again for all of your support - on Etsy and then through personal orders! Our first Christmas drop sold out so fast this year (off of Etsy) so if you are still looking for the perfect unique gift or for a bespoke heirloom memory piece for yourself, head to the shop and go HERE for the collection! I am sure you have seen this a lot all over social media, but a purchase from a shop like ours or any small business owner is truly life-changing. There is so much work, time, and care that goes into creating piecs that it is not just a sale for a shop owner it is truly a beautiful answer as you truly support families in every way.
One Junk Journal I shared about this week was the This adorable vintage Christmas in the Country is now available for purchase! (You can find it HERE!)
As we look to a new year ahead of us, if you are looking for Thursday Health Thoughts, Simple and Nutritious recipes and encouragement for chronic illness or health issues, check out this page HERE! Every week I share new thoughts and tips and I hope that they are an encouragement to you in your health journey! I have been sharing these tips on so many different subjects since 2013 that it is amazing to think that we are looking at starting year 13 of sharing!!
One of the most read and all time favorite post for people is the one entitled "The Benefits of Laughing".
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There are also lots of posts related to the holidays including...
If you are looking for holiday specific books that I have written you can find them here...
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This is the first and only Lyme Specific Advent and Christmas Devotional for Lyme Warriors. Here is a brief description of the book from the press release:
"When Light Dawns" is the first and only Lyme Patient specific book for the Advent & Christmas season. This book features daily reflections that will inspire & give hope to Lyme Warriors. Containing a daily reflection & song for each day of the Christmas Season (from the last week of November through the first week of January) "When Light Dawns" can be used as a simple encouragement to the weary heart or as a guided devotional study. However it is used, "When Light Dawns" will provide encouragement & give new meaning to the popular phrase, "Holiday preparations" this season.
You can find it where books are sold and on Amazon HERE!
Book 2 in the Chronic Grace Series
This is the first and only Chronic Illness Specific book related to the idea of what to pray, what to do, and what to say (releasing in 2025) for Chronic Illness patients. Here is a brief description of the book from the press release:
This book is written for those with a heart and desire to practically meet someone struggling through the confusing and difficult road of a chronic health condition this holiday season. Often those who long to walk the journey of a chronic health condition with their loved ones ask from a sincere place, "How can I really help this holiday?" but feel at a loss of where to start. This book is filled with unique and one-of-a-kind ideas for this holiday season that will be a wonderful "jumping off point" for you to be reaching out to those whom you love that struggle with chronic health issues and their loved ones.
You can find it on Amazon HERE!
4. THANK YOU
Thank you so much for your incredible support of Caravan Sonnet Shoppe this past year! I have so many plans and things I am doing behind the scenes as I work on this shop and your support means so much to me! If you are a teacher, tutor, homeschool mama or dad, or looking for personal finance, history, and government resources for students you can find the shop HERE!
With Caravan Sonnet turning twelve years old this year I love sharing on Fridays some of the older but most popular posts on the blog! We are excited to participate in some different Christmas events that we enjoy and one of the ones that we enjoyed so much and was a blog reader favorite was our winter sleigh ride in 2023! You can read more about it HERE!
I hope that you have a wonderful Friday friends! Thank you for making this such an incredible space to come to and connect with every single day. I am so blessed!!
Today we're diving into something practical that can completely transform your next adventure: renting a car for travel. Whether you're planning an epic road trip across New Zealand, exploring the coastlines of California, or venturing through the Canadian Maritimes, understanding car rentals can save you money, stress, and unlock incredible freedom on your journey.
Over the years of traveling with chronic illness and navigating countless road trips, renting cars has become second nature. There's something magical about picking up keys at an airport and knowing the open road awaits. But those first few rentals? Let me tell you, there were some learning curves! From unexpected fees to vehicle choices that didn't quite work out, experience has taught valuable lessons worth sharing.
Here are seven essential tips that will help you navigate car rentals with confidence and joy.
Research Vehicle Options Before Booking
Not all rental cars suit every adventure. Choosing the right vehicle makes all the difference between a stressful trip and a comfortable journey.
For city exploration, compact cars offer easy parking and better fuel economy. These nimble vehicles slip into tight spaces and navigate narrow streets effortlessly. Solo travelers or couples find them perfect for urban adventures.
Planning mountain drives or visiting national parks? SUVs and four-wheel drives provide better handling on varied terrain. Extra cargo space accommodates luggage, outdoor gear, and spontaneous roadside picnic supplies.
Families benefit from larger vehicles with ample seating and storage. Nothing dampens vacation spirits faster than cramped quarters and luggage tetris at every stop.
Consider fuel efficiency too. Long distances mean frequent fill-ups add up quickly. Hybrid vs petrol car hire options can significantly reduce fuel costs while benefiting the environment—something worth celebrating when exploring beautiful landscapes we want to preserve for future generations.
Understand Insurance Coverage Thoroughly
Insurance feels overwhelming, but taking time to understand coverage protects both peace of mind and wallet.
Most rental companies offer several insurance tiers. Basic coverage typically comes included but requires paying a damage excess if something goes wrong. Upgraded options eliminate or reduce excess amounts.
Before purchasing additional insurance, check existing coverage. Personal auto insurance sometimes extends to rentals. Credit cards occasionally provide rental car insurance benefits when booking through them.
Ask specific questions:
* What does basic coverage include?
* What is the excess amount?
* Are windscreen and tire damage covered?
* Does coverage extend to gravel roads or specific terrains?
* Are additional drivers covered?
Understanding these details prevents surprises. Nothing ruins a trip faster than unexpected charges appearing after returning home.
Book Early for Better Rates and Selection
Last-minute bookings limit choices and often cost more. Planning ahead opens doors to better vehicles, lower prices, and special promotions.
Rental companies release vehicles months in advance. Early birds secure preferred models at competitive rates. Waiting until days before departure means settling for whatever remains available—often at premium prices during peak seasons.
Flexibility helps too. Weekday pickups sometimes offer better rates than weekend bookings. Airport locations versus city centers may differ in pricing. Comparing options takes minimal effort but yields maximum savings.
Watch for promotional periods. Many companies run seasonal specials, membership discounts, or package deals combining accommodations with rentals. Sign up for newsletters to catch these opportunities.
Remember that booking early doesn't mean losing flexibility. Most companies allow free cancellations or modifications within certain timeframes. Check cancellation policies when booking, then adjust plans as needed without penalty.
Inspect the Vehicle Carefully at Pickup
Those few minutes inspecting your rental car before driving away? Absolutely essential. Document everything to protect yourself from false damage claims.
Walk completely around the vehicle, checking for:
* Scratches, dents, or paint chips
* Windscreen cracks or chips
* Tire condition and tread depth
* Interior cleanliness and damage
* Fuel level
Take photos or videos of any existing damage from multiple angles. Include timestamps if possible. Most rental staff appreciate thorough inspections—they want accurate records too.
Test essential functions before leaving:
* Lights (headlights, brake lights, turn signals)
* Windscreen wipers and washer fluid
* Air conditioning and heating
* Radio and phone connectivity
* Trunk and door locks
Sounds tedious? Perhaps. But discovering a missing jack or empty washer fluid reservoir while stranded on a remote highway makes those extra minutes worthwhile.
Report any concerns immediately. Better to delay pickup slightly than deal with complications later.
Plan for Fuel Costs and Policies
Fuel policies vary between companies, significantly impacting total costs. Understanding options helps choose wisely.
Full-to-full remains most economical. Receive the car with a full tank, return it full. Straightforward and fair. Just locate a petrol station near the return location to top up before dropping off.
Pre-purchase fuel means paying upfront for a full tank, returning the car empty. Sounds convenient but rarely works out cheaper. Using every last drop proves nearly impossible, essentially gifting unused fuel to the company.
Fuel service charge allows returning the car at any fuel level, with the company charging for refueling plus a service fee. This convenience option costs significantly more per litre than pumping yourself.
Calculate estimated fuel needs based on planned mileage. Apps and websites help estimate costs for specific routes. Factor this into your overall budget—fuel often represents a substantial portion of road trip expenses.
Consider joining petrol loyalty programs. Many countries offer rewards cards providing per-litre discounts. Small savings accumulate quickly over long distances.
Know Your Route and Rental Restrictions
Understanding where you can (and cannot) drive prevents violations and unexpected charges.
Some rental agreements restrict certain roads or areas:
* Gravel or unpaved roads
* Border crossings between countries
* Ferry crossings
* Remote regions
Violating these restrictions can void insurance coverage. Imagine having an accident on a prohibited road and discovering insurance won't cover damages. Not the adventure memory anyone wants!
Research your planned route thoroughly. Map out major stops and verify rental terms permit your itinerary. If crossing borders or taking ferries is essential, confirm permission and any associated fees beforehand.
Download offline maps before departing. Remote areas often lack reliable cell service. Nothing creates stress quite like losing navigation in unfamiliar territory.
Plan rest stops every two to three hours on long drives. Fatigue contributes to accidents far more than most realize. Breaks benefit both safety and enjoyment—those spontaneous stops often create the best memories.
Return the Car on Time and in Good Condition
Final impressions matter. Returning rental cars properly ensures smooth conclusions to wonderful adventures.
Late returns trigger expensive hourly or daily charges. Build buffer time into schedules, especially when catching flights. Traffic, unexpected detours, or simply underestimating driving time happens. Better to arrive early than pay late fees.
Return the car in similar condition to pickup:
* Clean out all belongings (check under seats and in pockets)
* Remove rubbish
* Return fuel to required level
* Note return mileage
Quick interior tidying shows respect and prevents cleaning fees. Nobody expects professional detailing, but removing obvious mess takes minutes and demonstrates consideration.
Document the return with photos, just as you did at pickup. Capture mileage, fuel level, and overall vehicle condition. Keep these until charges finalize and no disputes arise.
Request a receipt confirming return. This protects against claims you never returned the vehicle or returned it late. Simple documentation prevents complicated headaches.
Final Thoughts
Renting cars opens incredible opportunities for exploration and freedom. With preparation and knowledge, the process becomes simple rather than stressful.
These seven tips—researching vehicles, understanding insurance, booking early, inspecting thoroughly, planning fuel strategies, knowing route restrictions, and returning properly—create foundations for successful car rental experiences.
Every road trip teaches something new. Perhaps you'll discover a stunning viewpoint not on any map, or a charming cafe in a town you never planned to visit. Maybe you'll simply enjoy uninterrupted conversations with loved ones while scenery rolls past the windows.
Those moments of freedom and discovery make travel magical. Cars simply provide the means to chase those experiences.
As we navigate whatever season of life we're in—whether robust health or managing challenges—may we continue seeking beauty, creating memories, and embracing adventures that fill our hearts with joy and gratitude.
Planning your next journey? Spend time researching, ask questions, and trust that preparation leads to peace. Then buckle up and enjoy every mile of the adventure ahead.
Safe travels, sweet friends! May your roads be smooth, your companions delightful, and your memories abundant. Come back and share your stories—we'd love to hear about your adventures!
For more inspiration on planning memorable trips, explore our tips for fun caravanning road trips and discover how to make every journey extraordinary. Looking to stretch your travel budget further? Check out these helpful tips for long road trips that apply whether renting or driving your own vehicle.
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1. Be Present.
I have said this before, but the best gift that you can give is yourself. Yes, the holiday seasons are busy for you with lots of parties, events, and gatherings but most likely your loved one who is fighting Lyme Disease is not able to attend all or any of these types of events. Many times they feel loneliness more than ever at the holiday season as they spend more time alone during these weeks then others as people are off having lots of fun. The best gift you can give is to schedule in a phone call, stop over for a visit, or skype with your friend during your busy and their lonely holiday season - what a beautiful gift this would be!
2. Offer monetary help if possible.
Even with insurance those with Lyme Disease patients spend thousands and thousands of dollars each year trying to get healthy. Many people with Lyme Disease, like myself, have already gone through all available resources. Many families, like mine, with a Lyme Disease patient are not planning on exchanging Christmas gifts. I have been the recipient of monetary help and each time it is a humbling and most needed gift. These types of gifts do not have to be large either. Someone gave me a five dollar gift card to Target that helped purchase necessities. Such a blessing! Gift cards to Target are priceless! This can help purchase medications, groceries, clothes, and the list goes on! Truly gift cards are wonderful if that is an option for you to give!
3. Purchase their favorite bath items.
Many Lyme Disease patients use special bath products (including shampoo, conditioner, soap, lotion, perfume, deodorant, etc.) that are free from certain dyes, chemicals, or ingredients. Yes, these items are more expensive but are necessary. What a lovely gift this would be for someone! Don't know what they use? Ask them or a family member!
Many Lyme Disease patients use special bath products (including shampoo, conditioner, soap, lotion, perfume, deodorant, etc.) that are free from certain dyes, chemicals, or ingredients. Yes, these items are more expensive but are necessary. What a lovely gift this would be for someone! Don't know what they use? Ask them or a family member!
4. Pay their Cell Phone Bill for a month.
Most of us with Lyme Disease desperately need our cell phones and that yucky bill each month takes out a huge amount of money. Consider paying their cell phone bill for a month! I have a Lymie friend who shared that a group of her former co-workers went down to her cell phone provider and paid her cell phone bill for the year. What an AMAZING gift!
Most of us with Lyme Disease desperately need our cell phones and that yucky bill each month takes out a huge amount of money. Consider paying their cell phone bill for a month! I have a Lymie friend who shared that a group of her former co-workers went down to her cell phone provider and paid her cell phone bill for the year. What an AMAZING gift!
5. Purchase a gift certificate to a special salon.
You know how you spend a lot of money on having your hair cut, nails done, etc. for the holiday season? Your loved one who is suffering from Lyme Disease would love that to but would never dream of spending the money on something like that anymore. I can speak from personal experience that the changes that occur with an illness in regards to personal appearance can be difficult. Different medications can cause weight changes, hair loss, skin break outs, and generally make you feel like you look "awful". I personally would love to have a hair cut, eye brows waxed, nails done, etc. but there is NO money for this type of thing. (To be completely personal I have had my hair cut twice in the last three years.) You get the point friends. If this is something you can give to a friend- it would be an incredibly blessing.
You know how you spend a lot of money on having your hair cut, nails done, etc. for the holiday season? Your loved one who is suffering from Lyme Disease would love that to but would never dream of spending the money on something like that anymore. I can speak from personal experience that the changes that occur with an illness in regards to personal appearance can be difficult. Different medications can cause weight changes, hair loss, skin break outs, and generally make you feel like you look "awful". I personally would love to have a hair cut, eye brows waxed, nails done, etc. but there is NO money for this type of thing. (To be completely personal I have had my hair cut twice in the last three years.) You get the point friends. If this is something you can give to a friend- it would be an incredibly blessing.
6. Listen without offering advice (unless asked).
When you offer unsolicited advice, it can come across as a lecture- even if that is not your intent. Someone once said: "Assume that we have heard all of the tips on Lyme Disease and leave it at that." I couldn't have said it any better.
When you offer unsolicited advice, it can come across as a lecture- even if that is not your intent. Someone once said: "Assume that we have heard all of the tips on Lyme Disease and leave it at that." I couldn't have said it any better.
7. Provide a special basket for a "night in".
Why not gather a few items together to give to those who can't go out? Perhaps a snack, movie, etc. could provide a lovely gift!
8. Soft, Snugly, and Comfy blankets.
I love feeling comfy- especially on days where the pain is intense and I feel so miserable. I love the gift of soft blankets, comfy sheets, and sweet throws. A couple of years ago I was the recipient of a beautiful prayer quilt. Every time that I look at it and use it I am reminded that there are SO many people praying for me.
Why not gather a few items together to give to those who can't go out? Perhaps a snack, movie, etc. could provide a lovely gift!
8. Soft, Snugly, and Comfy blankets.
I love feeling comfy- especially on days where the pain is intense and I feel so miserable. I love the gift of soft blankets, comfy sheets, and sweet throws. A couple of years ago I was the recipient of a beautiful prayer quilt. Every time that I look at it and use it I am reminded that there are SO many people praying for me.
9. Give a coupon book/ card that lists out something that you (and your family) will do once a month, once a week, etc. for a year.
Need suggestions? Here are just a few things that immediately come to mind:
Need suggestions? Here are just a few things that immediately come to mind:
(a) Help with housework.
(b) Help with yard work.
(c) Drive your friend to a doctors appointment or treatment (and offer to stay with them). I heard of a friend whose best friend drives her to every single doctors appointment in one area of her physical needs. That allows her spouse and other family members to have a "day off" of one doctor.
(d) Drive their children to school one day a week.
(e) Bring a meal twice a month.
(f) Pick up groceries once a week.
(g) Offer to go to Target, Walmart, etc. once a week or twice a month for them.
I could go on and on but y'all are creative!
10. Buy nice pajamas.
Those with Lyme Disease spend a lot of time in bed, at home, or in the hospital and nice pajamas are always a lovely gift.
11. Magazine subscriptions are a lovely gift!
Those with Lyme Disease spend a lot of time in bed, at home, or in the hospital and nice pajamas are always a lovely gift.
11. Magazine subscriptions are a lovely gift!
Magazines are great because they come in the mail (and we all LOVE getting happy mail) and are light and fun to read!
12. Purchase a netflix/hulu/pureflix account for a year.
13. Buy a "prime" membership on amazon.
12. Purchase a netflix/hulu/pureflix account for a year.
13. Buy a "prime" membership on amazon.
You can provide your friend with countless free TV shows, movies, and even books to read! And guess what? If they purchase supplements or products on amazon they will be eligible on FREE 2-day shipping! Someone gave me this gift a couple of years ago and it is truly priceless!
14. Create a relaxing atmosphere.
14. Create a relaxing atmosphere.
Purchase music, i-tunes gift cards, etc. so that your friend can listen to relaxing & encouraging music. (Disclaimer: #12-14 can be very difficult for some Lymies who struggle with sound so be extremely sensitive before purchasing these items!)
15. Gas Gift Cards.
I can't even begin to express how much money I spent in gas money each week driving to all of my local doctors appointments and this doesn't even begin to account for the ones that are not local. Gas gift cards are a wonderful gift.
16. Mind the car.
Along with #15 - a car gets lots of use. Take the car for a "spa day" and get the oil changed, washed, filled up with gas, and tuned up. This would be an AMAZING gift! Better yet, have someone do an entire tune up!
17. Ask them what the best books are on Lyme Disease and then read them.
15. Gas Gift Cards.
I can't even begin to express how much money I spent in gas money each week driving to all of my local doctors appointments and this doesn't even begin to account for the ones that are not local. Gas gift cards are a wonderful gift.
16. Mind the car.
Along with #15 - a car gets lots of use. Take the car for a "spa day" and get the oil changed, washed, filled up with gas, and tuned up. This would be an AMAZING gift! Better yet, have someone do an entire tune up!
17. Ask them what the best books are on Lyme Disease and then read them.
Tell them that you have spent the time doing this and believe me this is PRICELESS. You will be able to have an intelligent and compassionate conversation from that moment forward since you will be knowledgeable about their illness, especially from the perspective of the books that they have recommended. (Side Note: Read what they suggest not what wikipedia says...)
18. Introduce a hobby or supplement their existing hobby.
Does your friend do a hobby that helps them pass the time or that they enjoy? Perhaps your friend has opened an online shop to help cover the cost of treatment? Purchase items that they have been wanting or give them a gift card to their favorite specialty craft store. Do they not have a hobby but have been talking about starting one? Buy the intro book, the intro supplies, and give them the gift of creativity!
18. Introduce a hobby or supplement their existing hobby.
Does your friend do a hobby that helps them pass the time or that they enjoy? Perhaps your friend has opened an online shop to help cover the cost of treatment? Purchase items that they have been wanting or give them a gift card to their favorite specialty craft store. Do they not have a hobby but have been talking about starting one? Buy the intro book, the intro supplies, and give them the gift of creativity!
19. Give the gift or reading.
Is there something that your friend loves to read? Buy them the books they have been wanting but can't afford. Does your friend struggle with Neuro Lyme and can't read anymore? Give them books on tape! Don't know what to give them? Purchase a gift card to a bookstore or a kindle gift card. Maybe even purchase a kindle...
20. Research and Purchase a Gadget that can help them as they fight Lyme Disease.
You have heard me say this before but money is tight and lots of times gadgets are not purchased that could help make the journey easier. Don't know what is needed? Ask them or their family members!
21. Pay for an upcoming Doctors Appointment.
One of the things that many people don't understand is that despite having insurance your Lymie friend most likely has to pay for their doctors appointments out of pocket. This means that instead of just having a co-pay your friend is responsible for the entire doctors visit at the time of the appointment. Prices vary but patients can bay anywhere between $375 to $1800 per appointment. Consider paying for a doctors appointment (or partial appointment) by calling the doctors office and seeing how you can put money on their account. Believe me- this would be a priceless gift.
21. Pay for an upcoming Doctors Appointment.
One of the things that many people don't understand is that despite having insurance your Lymie friend most likely has to pay for their doctors appointments out of pocket. This means that instead of just having a co-pay your friend is responsible for the entire doctors visit at the time of the appointment. Prices vary but patients can bay anywhere between $375 to $1800 per appointment. Consider paying for a doctors appointment (or partial appointment) by calling the doctors office and seeing how you can put money on their account. Believe me- this would be a priceless gift.
22. Journals.
While not everyone is a writer, some of us go through journalsyearly monthly weekly. *smiles* OOh... and pretty pens... hahaha that last one is just for me!
While not everyone is a writer, some of us go through journals
23. Purchase supplements, oils, IV treatments, etc.
Is your friend using alternative supplements? Most people with Lyme Disease use alternative treatments and these can be an expensive but necessary "addition" to their regime. Consider giving a gift card to their reflexologist, acupuncturist, massage therapist, chiropractor, etc. These are often expensive and this would be a wonderful gift. (Disclaimer: only purchase what your friend is currently using. This is not the time to give advice on what you believe would be the cure!)
Is your friend using alternative supplements? Most people with Lyme Disease use alternative treatments and these can be an expensive but necessary "addition" to their regime. Consider giving a gift card to their reflexologist, acupuncturist, massage therapist, chiropractor, etc. These are often expensive and this would be a wonderful gift. (Disclaimer: only purchase what your friend is currently using. This is not the time to give advice on what you believe would be the cure!)
24. Purchase items from their business.
Many Lymies have had to leave the job they love and have tried to find a way to make money in a new capacity. Support their endeavor. Do they have an etsy shop? Purchase gifts from that shop and spread the news about their shop via social media. Do they make things and sell them on the side? Have they written books? Help spread the word! One friend that I have who has Epilepsy had to quit her job teaching but is the most AMAZING baker and creates gorgeous and delicious pies. Another friend of ours went around to local churches who were holding Thanksgiving dinners this year and set up a business deal for her where the churches purchased the pies and she was able to gain enough income for a couple of months. This was an amazing idea our friend had but my friend with Epilepsy didn't have the energy to even think about it! This was an incredible blessing and guess what? She has "expanded" outside of our city and next year has double the orders from other churches and businesses!! Think outside the box for your friend, support their work - whether it is through purchasing something yourself or just simply spreading the word!
Many Lymies have had to leave the job they love and have tried to find a way to make money in a new capacity. Support their endeavor. Do they have an etsy shop? Purchase gifts from that shop and spread the news about their shop via social media. Do they make things and sell them on the side? Have they written books? Help spread the word! One friend that I have who has Epilepsy had to quit her job teaching but is the most AMAZING baker and creates gorgeous and delicious pies. Another friend of ours went around to local churches who were holding Thanksgiving dinners this year and set up a business deal for her where the churches purchased the pies and she was able to gain enough income for a couple of months. This was an amazing idea our friend had but my friend with Epilepsy didn't have the energy to even think about it! This was an incredible blessing and guess what? She has "expanded" outside of our city and next year has double the orders from other churches and businesses!! Think outside the box for your friend, support their work - whether it is through purchasing something yourself or just simply spreading the word!
25. Give them the gift of becoming an advocate of their disease.
I suggested asking your loved one what books that they would recommend to read about Lyme Disease but why not also because an advocate? Isn't it wonderful that there are so many walks and "government supported" funding for certain illnesses? That came about in part because of friends and family rallied to bring awareness. What about Lyme Disease? Do you know how what it really is? (If you don't you can read this post, "What is Lyme Disease" by clicking HERE!) Do you know how it is affecting your friend specifically? Do you know what is happening in Congress or at the state level in regards to it? Become an advocate for your loved one and for the thousands of others that might not have loved ones who care.
I suggested asking your loved one what books that they would recommend to read about Lyme Disease but why not also because an advocate? Isn't it wonderful that there are so many walks and "government supported" funding for certain illnesses? That came about in part because of friends and family rallied to bring awareness. What about Lyme Disease? Do you know how what it really is? (If you don't you can read this post, "What is Lyme Disease" by clicking HERE!) Do you know how it is affecting your friend specifically? Do you know what is happening in Congress or at the state level in regards to it? Become an advocate for your loved one and for the thousands of others that might not have loved ones who care.
26. Bath Spa- Hot tub.
Yes, hot tubs are expensive but Amazon sells the Conair Thermal Bath Spa Mat for a very reasonable price. This would be such a lovely gift! Along with this idea: special heating pads, massage heating pads, etc.
Yes, hot tubs are expensive but Amazon sells the Conair Thermal Bath Spa Mat for a very reasonable price. This would be such a lovely gift! Along with this idea: special heating pads, massage heating pads, etc.
27. Winter items.
Do y'all live in an area where winter rears its ugly head? Consider purchasing a can of spray defroster so that they do not have to scrape their car! (And maybe gloves, warm scarves, etc.!)
Do y'all live in an area where winter rears its ugly head? Consider purchasing a can of spray defroster so that they do not have to scrape their car! (And maybe gloves, warm scarves, etc.!)
28. Purchase (or create) holiday cards to send out (and give them a book of stamps).
I used to love sending Christmas Cards out (and still do) but the reality is that it is very expensive to purchase cards and stamps. The past couple of years I have only sent a few cards out due to the cost. I would have loved to send more and many people with Lyme Disease really want to, but with the cost of shipping it is impossible. Consider blessing your friend in this way. (Concerned that the extra stamps will go to waste? Don't be. Lots of medical bills still have to be sent out the old fashioned way - your friend will use those stamps one way or another!)
29. Help your friend address Christmas Card Envelopes.
Sometimes the energy to address the cards can be an issue. Offer to address the cards (and mail them!) for your friend! (Does your friend need to send out presents in the mail? Offer to do this for them! Waiting in line at the post office can be physically exhausting!)
29. Help your friend address Christmas Card Envelopes.
Sometimes the energy to address the cards can be an issue. Offer to address the cards (and mail them!) for your friend! (Does your friend need to send out presents in the mail? Offer to do this for them! Waiting in line at the post office can be physically exhausting!)
30. Write them a Letter.
The amount of emotions that encompass a day of living with Lyme Disease is absolutely staggering. There are hundreds of different side effects that your Lymie friend is dealing with and the road to healing is not a straight line. Your friend may be happy in the morning and one hour later is in tears because something didn't go right with the insurance company or the pharmacy. A beautiful gift in the middle of all of the chaos is a letter from a friend, cheering them on, expressing support and love and hope. This would be a beautiful gift that your friend would read many times over. Another idea? I was just the recipient of an envelope stuffed with letters from people that I don't know from a dear friends church. These people had spent time praying for me and then all wrote me letters. I have cried over them, re-read them hundreds of times already, and have been reminded that I am not alone. Words are powerful and can be the best gift of all.
31. Homemade Inspirational Artwork.
Create artwork that can be displayed- especially for those who are bedridden.
32. Create a Retreat.
Do you have a Lymie coming to visit for the holidays? Consider setting them up somewhere that they can retreat to rest and relax when they are feeling sick. A sweet friend of mine shared a precious story from a Christmas a couple of years ago. She was dreading a trip to her sister and brother-in-laws home simply because she knew that there would be 30 (!!) people that would all be staying in the home and it would offer little quiet time which she desperately needed at that stage of her treatment. She was very concerned about this and was considering not going on the trip when a beautiful present arrived in the mail. Her sister and brother-in-law had reserved a room at an exclusive retreat center in the same town. This allowed her the freedom to be apart of the holidays but also the necessary space to retreat and rest. As she says "it was the best Christmas present ever"! What a beautiful gift. Maybe you can't afford to do that but why not set up a special room in your home for your loved one where they can retreat as needed? This will give them an incredible blessing amidst the "hustle and bustle".
33. Give a gift card for "unmentionables".
If your friend hasn't had the money (or the energy) to buy new clothes in a while consider giving them a gift card to purchase the necessities that they probably need.
34. Purchase Pet Items.
Does your friend have a pet? Consider purchasing a gift card to their vet, paying for a pet "check up" (or grooming), or giving them a gift basket of necessary food and litter, treats, or toys.
35. Remember the caregiver(s).
I have often said this but me being ill is often harder on my family then myself. To see people that are constantly hurting and suffering and not be able to do anything about it is excruciating. Reach out to the caregivers and you will touch the heart of the person who is ill too.
As I have said countless times here on the blog, realize that your friend or family member with Lyme Disease is the best gift this season. Their illness is forcing them to set limitations but the gift to you is remembering what is truly important in the holiday season. Celebrate people. Not things or activities. At the end of the day people are the most important thing not whether or not you were able to buy every single gift in the world, decorate your house the best, or have the cutest pinterest worthy decorations. People are what matter friends and Lyme Disease may be the best gift in helping us all remember that this holiday season!
Looking for other posts on how to help friends with an illness during the holiday season?
Check out these other posts:
The amount of emotions that encompass a day of living with Lyme Disease is absolutely staggering. There are hundreds of different side effects that your Lymie friend is dealing with and the road to healing is not a straight line. Your friend may be happy in the morning and one hour later is in tears because something didn't go right with the insurance company or the pharmacy. A beautiful gift in the middle of all of the chaos is a letter from a friend, cheering them on, expressing support and love and hope. This would be a beautiful gift that your friend would read many times over. Another idea? I was just the recipient of an envelope stuffed with letters from people that I don't know from a dear friends church. These people had spent time praying for me and then all wrote me letters. I have cried over them, re-read them hundreds of times already, and have been reminded that I am not alone. Words are powerful and can be the best gift of all.
31. Homemade Inspirational Artwork.
Create artwork that can be displayed- especially for those who are bedridden.
32. Create a Retreat.
Do you have a Lymie coming to visit for the holidays? Consider setting them up somewhere that they can retreat to rest and relax when they are feeling sick. A sweet friend of mine shared a precious story from a Christmas a couple of years ago. She was dreading a trip to her sister and brother-in-laws home simply because she knew that there would be 30 (!!) people that would all be staying in the home and it would offer little quiet time which she desperately needed at that stage of her treatment. She was very concerned about this and was considering not going on the trip when a beautiful present arrived in the mail. Her sister and brother-in-law had reserved a room at an exclusive retreat center in the same town. This allowed her the freedom to be apart of the holidays but also the necessary space to retreat and rest. As she says "it was the best Christmas present ever"! What a beautiful gift. Maybe you can't afford to do that but why not set up a special room in your home for your loved one where they can retreat as needed? This will give them an incredible blessing amidst the "hustle and bustle".
33. Give a gift card for "unmentionables".
If your friend hasn't had the money (or the energy) to buy new clothes in a while consider giving them a gift card to purchase the necessities that they probably need.
34. Purchase Pet Items.
Does your friend have a pet? Consider purchasing a gift card to their vet, paying for a pet "check up" (or grooming), or giving them a gift basket of necessary food and litter, treats, or toys.
35. Remember the caregiver(s).
I have often said this but me being ill is often harder on my family then myself. To see people that are constantly hurting and suffering and not be able to do anything about it is excruciating. Reach out to the caregivers and you will touch the heart of the person who is ill too.
As I have said countless times here on the blog, realize that your friend or family member with Lyme Disease is the best gift this season. Their illness is forcing them to set limitations but the gift to you is remembering what is truly important in the holiday season. Celebrate people. Not things or activities. At the end of the day people are the most important thing not whether or not you were able to buy every single gift in the world, decorate your house the best, or have the cutest pinterest worthy decorations. People are what matter friends and Lyme Disease may be the best gift in helping us all remember that this holiday season!
Looking for other posts on how to help friends with an illness during the holiday season?
Check out these other posts:
14 More Christmas Present Ideas For Your Chronically Ill Friend
15 Ways to Help a Friend with a Chronic Illness at Thanksgiving
Interested in purchasing one of my Lyme Books as a Christmas Present? You can click on the links below to go to each Lyme Disease book! Thank you so much for your support!
(1) When Light Dawns: Daily Reflections on Advent and Christmas for Lyme Warriors
(2) Praying through Lyme Disease- Book of Prayers
(3) When Hope Restores: Daily Reflections on Hope from the Psalms for the Lyme Disease Journey
(4) When Truth Refreshes: Daily Reflections for the Emotions that Accompany the Lyme Disease Journey
15 Ways to Help a Friend with a Chronic Illness at Thanksgiving
Interested in purchasing one of my Lyme Books as a Christmas Present? You can click on the links below to go to each Lyme Disease book! Thank you so much for your support!
(1) When Light Dawns: Daily Reflections on Advent and Christmas for Lyme Warriors
(2) Praying through Lyme Disease- Book of Prayers
(3) When Hope Restores: Daily Reflections on Hope from the Psalms for the Lyme Disease Journey
(4) When Truth Refreshes: Daily Reflections for the Emotions that Accompany the Lyme Disease Journey
I have also written 2 E-Books that are specific for things to pray and do and for a Chronically Ill friend and those that love them!
(6) 12 Things to Do
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